Sally Pitcher Sword passed away peacefully, of natural causes, on Jan. 1, 2025, in her Princeton, N.J. home. She was 99 years old.
Known affectionately as “Howie” by her friends and family, she was married for 55 years to William Sword, a former partner at Morgan Stanley and founder of Wm Sword & Co., investment bankers in Princeton, until his passing in 2005. Together they had four children, 10 grandchildren, and nine great grandchildren.
Howie’s friends and family were the center of her world. Always offering a positive comment or caring question, she was a loving and kind presence to all who knew her. Everywhere she frequented in Princeton, from the post office, to the library, to the grocery store, she was known and loved.
After raising her children, Howie was eager to continue exercising her inquisitive mind. With her high school degree from the Park School in Buffalo and an Associate’s Degree from Bradford Junior College in hand, she was accepted for transfer into the Princeton University Class of 1981. At the age of 55, she earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Art History.
Howie took advantage of her degree to serve as a docent at the Princeton University Art Museum until well into her 80s. She also gave back to the University community by serving on the Auxiliary to the Isabella McCosh Infirmary.
Caring for others was a hallmark of Howie’s life. She was a board member and chair of the board at Trinity Counseling Service in Princeton, where she initiated the idea of hosting an annual Bastille Day Ball as a major fundraiser. To thank her for many years of service, the organization honored Howie at a Paris-themed event at Drumthwacket, the N.J. Governor’s residence, on July 14, 2007. She was also a recipient in 1977 of the Gerard B. Lambert Award for service to the greater Princeton Community.
For more than 50 years, Howie served as an admissions volunteer at Princeton Medical Center, offering a smile and warm welcome to patients and families. In the 1960s, she co- chaired the Hospital Fête, an important annual fundraising event for the Medical Center. After the Princeton YMCA and YWCA built their shared facility on Avalon Place, she was asked to chair the joint board. Additionally, she was president of the board of Princeton Nursery School, which provides quality childcare and pre-school education for families in need.
Howie also contributed meaningfully to several organizations throughout Princeton. In the 1950s, she was president of the local chapter of Planned Parenthood. She was a former board member of Princeton Day School, a former trustee at The Hun School, a member of the Pretty Brook Tennis Club, a charter member of the Bedens Brook Club, and former member of The Nassau Club.
Beyond her philanthropy and community involvement, Howie was an accomplished musician. She delighted friends and family with her talent for playing the piano by ear. As a 70+-year member of Nassau Presbyterian Church, and a former elder, she sang alto in the choir for many years. She also co-founded the “Opposite Sextet,” an all-women’s a cappella group, which performed in the annual Spring Sing concert — a tradition that continues to this day after 68 years. She and her sister Mary also co-founded the singing group “Tabooz” in college.
She is predeceased by her parents, Mabel (Swisher) Tynan Pitcher and Ralph Morgan Pitcher, her husband of 55 years William Sword, her son William Sword, Jr., and her sister Mary Pitcher Stewart. She is survived by her children Richard Morgan Sword and his wife Elizabeth of Jackson, Wyo., Molly Sword McDonough and her husband Peter of Pennington, N.J., Sarah Sword Lazarus and her husband Ken of Concord, Mass., and her son Bill’s widow Martha Sullivan Sword of Skillman, N.J. She is also survived by her beloved 10 grandchildren: Gretchen Liddell Sword, Richard Morgan Sword, Jr. (Lindsay), Hope Tynan Sword, Bayless Hauge Sword (Andrew Byron), Sarah Pitcher McKani (Kunal), Elizabeth Payson Houfek (Nicholas), William Sullivan Sword (Anne Sekley), Thomas Mangan McDonough (Theresa LaColla), Samuel Skinner Lazarus and Molly Fradin Lazarus; and nine great grandchildren.
A service of remembrance will be held at 11:00 am, Saturday, April 12, 2025 at Nassau Presbyterian Church, 61 Nassau St., Princeton, N.J., 08542. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Nassau Presbyterian Church in Princeton or the Princeton First Aid and Rescue Squad.
